Package eBook & 7 Mp3’s + Bonus

“Happy Children, Happy Home!”

How to build Authentic Relationships with True Understanding Respect

and Mindful, Heart-Based Connecting

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When I started in 2008, the first 6 workshop series  “Happy Children, Happy Home!”  attracted  seven mothers  and one father. Shortly thereafter, I started  the same  workshop series again. Now seven fathers  and one mother showed up! The partners in the first group had noticed a significant improvement in the relationship with their spouses who took the first series.  They saw changes with their children  and it motivated them to come as well.

The EBook is supposed to be read FIRST in conjunction with MP#1. Some mp3’s are live-recordings and were a part of the workshops, the other mp3’s are personally recorded.

Parenting can be joyful and fun. With the use of the tools available in this package, you will be happy to witness the changes!

Wouldn’t it be nice if… 

  • You would be heard right away and not have to repeat yourself?
  • You would feel confident about how you communicate, have influence and see how your child cooperates?
  • You could break the pattern of yelling, arguing etc…?
  • You would NOT feel frustrated or exhausted, but instead be enjoying the company of your child?
  • You would stop worrying about what you are doing wrong,  and begin knowing how to change the situation ?

This package delivers great tools for Conscious Heart-Based  and Non-Violent Communication, supporting you in creating the relationships you dream about.  

Unlock your unlimited potential as a parent!

Every parent has the choice and capacity to grow and unlock the key to their inner wisdom,  without listening to the gratuitous  negative comments so many like to freely launch around us. See how many people in this world are unhappy. The way children were raised for centuries hasn’t been such a great experience, in most cases. But with conscious heart-based parenting,  a lot can change to benefit our world. Listen to your heart and intuition, eliminate unwanted patterns, and you will create harmony in your family.


 This course helps you to become aware of your unconscious communication patterns, the energy of positive and negative words, and what words you should and shouldn’t say. Topics such as compassion, respect, deliberate creation are part of the curriculum. 

You will get clear insights on how  blame, shame and guilt patterns work. Why you should not take things personally. You will be surprised to see how your language, attitude, and tone affect your relationships.  80% Of our communication is NON-VERBAL.  90% Of our communication is derived from our subconscious the data base where all of our experiences are stored. The energy-level of the chosen words we speak  is impact-full. This course is  about becoming a happy parent with happy children.  Say goodbye to reactive thinking and become proactive in shifting patterns!



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 What do you prefer: authentic respect or superficial respect? Discussions about RESPECT, what it is, how to respond respectfully to your child or teen, in a way that still addresses every need appropriately. Natural respect comes from  a place of non-judgmental and unconditional “honor” and being respected is the birthright of every human being.

If a respectful attitude with your children  is absent, it’s time to reflect on what is going on and what language is used. Respect is only valuable when it is authentic. Being polite, out of fear for punishment, creates superficial relationships, and alienates us from ourselves and others. If you want to raise your children respectfully, and instill in them sincere respect, real, authentic and heart-based, then the language exercises in this module are for you. Discover why: “You are disrespectful” is a counterproductive phrase. 



Have you ever been frustrated that you didn’t feel respected?  You want to have respectful behavior in your home. Are you upset when your child is not behaving respectfully towards you? Conscious Heart-Based Communication has answers and tools for creating respect. 

Respect doesn’t need to be earned. If that would be true then a baby should not be respected because he/she cannot earn anything. Respect is for all ages. If you haven’t received respect how can you become respectful other than by fear of punishment?  And how real is that kind of  respect? Not feeling respected is the root of many relationships and communication problems, between adults and in family situations. Are you hurt or have you been challenged by certain words or behavior?    

Any living being deserves respect, as do the animal kingdom and the planet.

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No More Drama: Effective Communication Tools for Positive Relationships. 

Learn exactly how to  speak in a way that meets everyone’s needs. Yelling and screaming will no longer be a part of your life. Explore the 5 step model that teaches you the art of Compassionate Communication where boundaries are honored. Learn what you need in order to face daily challenges without having to threaten or manipulate. No more power struggles or the use of force. Using these approaches only serves to alienate our children from us, sometimes forever. Parenting is a journey of self-discovery.  Wouldn’t it be great to make some changes so that you will say to yourself: YES! I am really happy and content to see how harmonious my family has become? I have the answer. It is done without guilt, blame or shame.   Make some changes in your style of parenting to end the drama forever!


CONDITIONAL LOVE versus UNCONDITIONAL LOVE.  If head and heart are not connected, we are not in balance. When we judge and criticise, the old-fashioned way of raising kids, than we are disconnected from love. We were not encouraged to think independently, instead we had to follow strict rules. The former made us dependent on the approval of others. We were punished or rewarded. The love we received was mostly conditional, even though it might have seemed differently. Parents and teachers got angry at us (because their needs were not met) and we were rejected, grounded, punished and all we loved could be taken away. “That’s how we learn.” Really? That powergame where the biggest person wins, doesn’t bring the best out of us. If your partner doesn’t do what you want, do you take his phone away? Do you send him out of the room? No, right? Why not teach children to resolve conflicts respectfully and effectively? Every “mistake” is a teachable moment. The Conditional love and punishment has many negative side-effects. Discover the alternatives in this module. 

name circles 6.21 p&r  The Art of Raising Children in a Heart-based,  Loving Way. The “punish and reward” method used to get children to cooperate and behave well is widely spread and employed in the USA , at home and in school. “Do this and you’ll get that”,  the punishment-reward paradigm,  may seem effective BUT it actually does more harm than good. This audio class teaches you how to empower your child by creating respectful, responsible and independent thinking behavior without resorting to the use of “pet-training” techniques on your kids. For centuries the world’s educational system was based on “disciplinarian” corporal punishment and has been exchanged often for more verbal aggressive abuse. The impact of words on our psyche though, is tremendous. The use of high energy words versus low-energy words can elicit totally different behavior. Thoughts as well as words are energy. Verbal abuse is extremely powerful and hurts deep within the soul. Violence is never permitted to teach right from wrong.
There are effective and kind ways to create a harmonious relationship between you and your child (or your spouse) instead of creating a battle ground of negativity. Tap into your true power in order to be the parent you dream to be!



name circles 6.21-5  Our feelings are mostly the result of what we think and how we perceive. Our feelings are also connected to our needs. However, we often blame others for how we feel, but our feelings derive from unmet needs. Are our needs for harmony,  love, respect or connection met? We often validate the  interpretation of our feelings, and making them right and absolute. . Nothing is further from the truth. A new thought, a new understanding or interpretation can suddenly change our moods or the way we look at things. “When we change the way we look at things, the things we look at change.”  Our deepest desire, to be loved and appreciated for who we are, overshadows all other needs. Raising children can put us in situations that make us feel frustrated, angry or powerless. Yet it is definitely possible to thrive in parenting, while creating harmonious and heart-based connections with our loved ones and everyone else.
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 Get clarity with the understanding of Epigenetics and Trans-Generational Family Dynamics. 

Did you know that the beliefs and negative experiences of your ancestors can be carried over to you? Yes, it’s true. You were downloaded with their beliefs in utero and now these experiences are often running your life. Therefore, no matter what you think on a conscious level, your subconscious programming is steering your ship. The good news is that these negative beliefs and eventual burdens can be cleared from us permanently so that we can live a happy, loving and fulfilling life. In this program you will discover how to clear your past inherited beliefs in order to let your true, authentic self shine! When trans-generational trauma shifts and is released with the use of energy-psychology and Family Constellations, our children will  benefit from the work we have done on ourselves.


Your eBook/Manual is included

and is the foundation of  the Mp3’s. 


Happy Parents, Happy Home!™

A road-map to create YOUR HAPPY Family.


“Carla is a wonderfully bright and shining gem in my life. With her guidance I have reacquainted myself with a life filled with love, laughter and joy.  She holds vast clinical, scientific and spiritual knowledge which she lovingly shares to heal and transform those willing to listen and learn. She is authentic and articulate; a real treasure to anyone looking for personal transformation.

Many of you have heard me speak of Carla Van Walsum’s workshops and how wonderful I think she is. I met Carla via her “Happy Children, Happy Home” workshops. I really believe in the work that she’s doing.  She certainly helped me and my family discover (or re-discover) how to live with more love, laughter and happiness.  I can say, though, that in working with Carla, life is much more pleasant and less stressful for us now than before.”

Katie Starkey, Ft Lauderdale

Carla has excellent training and ideas that really work

“Carla Van Walsum has worked with parents at our private school and has shared powerful mind shift and communication strategies to help parents reduce power struggles with their children and create more family harmony. I highly recommend her method of intervention with families. She has excellent training and ideas that really work for kids.”

Dr. Alina Yurkovsky, PsyD, St Andrews School, Boca Raton

We saved thousands of dollars by working with Carla

“Carla’s one-on-one support has been extraordinary. As a new parent, I felt conflicted about returning to full-time work. After months of gradual transition into a wonderful day care, my toddler got to the point of dismissal for biting behaviors. My husband was deeply frustrated with many aspects of our home life. Carla has the tools and wisdom to rapidly transform family situations. Her program is saving us thousands of dollars in lost wages and changes in child care. I highly recommend her private sessions for families.”

 Parent, Boynton Beach, Fl

Great Carla. What is all this going to cost me?

Consider it an investment, because it is. It’s an investment in your future, in your family, in your life, in your happiness. No more wasting energy on fighting and frustration.

My personal clients pay me thousands to help themselves through this EXACT same system! And…it is a compilation from many years and sessions.

But guess what? It’s not going to cost you thousands.
For a limited time you’ll only pay:

Package A:

$47 (Was $97)

                                                                                 $50 savings!


Package B

$147 (Was $247)

$100 savings!

Package B includes:

Package A + 2  x 45 minute private sessions


To your overflowing happiness and success,

with love, Carla

P.S.  Please don’t let this be one more thing you need to “think about.”

Nothing will keep you from your dreams faster than delaying decisions.